PTSD Awareness Day

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PTSD - Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder Awareness

Since 2010, Congress named June 27th as National PTSD Awareness Day and in 2014, the Senate designated the whole month of June as National PTSD Awareness Month. (www.ptsd.vs.gov)

When most people hear PTSD they are quick to associated the disorder with military service. Although, this is very common that people who have served and fought in war may experience some side effects it can be experienced in ANYONE who has faced a traumatic experience. Be careful not to assume that everyone has it because that may not be the case. Also, there are two types; chronic (ongoing) and acute (short term).

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Signs can appear as early as 3 months after the traumatic event and even up to years later! According to the National Institute of Mental Health states that symptoms must last more than a month and be severe enough to interfere with relationships or work to be considered PTSD. The course of the illness varies. Some people recover within 6 months, while others have symptoms that last much longer.

A doctor who has experience helping people with mental illnesses, such as a psychiatrist or psychologist, can diagnose PTSD.

In March 2018, I was officially diagnosed with PTSD. Subconsciously, I knew I did. I didn't want to face the reality that my past was still haunting me. I remember my doctor telling me it... just as calm as could be and I think that's how we need to hear things. We were discussing my health issues and medications and despite his utter shock that my previous doctor was trying to kill me - he felt sympathy. He wanted to know what happened to me. He wanted to understand why a 27-year old woman, moderately healthy was on 6 different medications that could potentially kill her. (If taken at once.) I gave him the short version of my story and all he could say was "I'm sorry...as doctor's sometimes we like to throw medication at the problem and we don't take time to deal with our patients." That experience changed me. I felt like I needed to start handling my ish and not just dealing. 

I have learned that if you don't deal with your problems and choose to bury them then you'll deal with them forever! It only goes away temporarily. You learn to hide your feelings and you really begin to believe that you're okay. Trust me, I thought I was fine until a recent breakdown that shattered my complete existence.  

Growing up there were some things you just swept under the rug. There was no need to talk about everything. I believe that's a REAL problem especially in the African American community. However, that's a topic for another day. The most important thing that we know and understand is how to learn the signs. Pay attention to the people you love. You never know who is going through.

Not to mention...Kate Spade committed suicide this month! I wonder how many people saw it coming...

(Information provided by the National Institute for Mental Health)

To be diagnosed with PTSD, an adult must have all of the following for at least 1 month:

  • At least one re-experiencing symptom
  • At least one avoidance symptom
  • At least two arousal and reactivity symptoms
  • At least two cognition and mood symptoms

Re-experiencing symptoms include:

  • Flashbacksβ€”reliving the trauma over and over, including physical symptoms like a racing heart or sweating
  • Bad dreams
  • Frightening thoughts

Re-experiencing symptoms may cause problems in a person’s everyday routine. The symptoms can start from the person’s own thoughts and feelings. Words, objects, or situations that are reminders of the event can also trigger re-experiencing symptoms.

Avoid familiar places but when you're ready its okay to return once you feel that you're safe. I believe it's okay to revisit once you're healed and ONLY then! If not, the triggers will come when you least expect them. I remember not knowing if I was coming or going. 

If you don't remember or take away anything else...know that people are hurting. We all have life experiences some good and bad. For those of us who suffer, choose not to suffer in silence! You are not alone.

If you need help call: 1-888-457-4838 (military), Suicide Prevention: 1-800-273-8255, Crisis Text Line: Text CONNECT to 741741.

Hello Summer 🌞🌞🌞

Summer hasn't officially began but it's coming this week! So I'm geared up for lazy days on the beach! I even have a bucket list of things I want to accomplish this summer. Wish me luck!

The girls and I finally made it to the beach! We thought this South Carolina weather was going to fail us, yet again, but to our surprise it did not! Thank goodness, because I did not want to be stuck in the house. I've been extremely tired these days and I can't imagine having restless, whining kids.

Beach days are ALWAYS my go to! They're fun, affordable, and you can make memories that last a lifetime.

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My Beach Must Haves

Planning for a fun beach day can be easy! With only a few simple things you'll be ready to rock and roll!

1. Bottled water

2. Snacks (don't forget snacks, unless you want to spend the extra money finding stuff at the beach)

3. Sunscreen

4. Towels

5. Blankets

6. Buckets and shovels

7. Trash bag (don't be a litter bug!)

8. Wagon (optional)

9. Chairs (optional)

10. Umbrella (optional, I found one pretty cheap at Walmart for under $20)

11. Radio (optional)

12. Camera (phones work, too)

13. Cooler with ICE

Bring these items and you'll have yourself a day! Sometimes, I pack sandwiches if it's going to be a long day. I like to stay at the beach for at least 3 hours. This gives me a chance to layout and my kids a chance to tire out! WIN-WIN for all! 

 

 

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Let me not forget to mention, this cute 2-piece I rocked at the beach! I couldn't believe how bold I was but honey, it's 2018 and who cares! I love it!!!!! It's cute, comfy, and affordable. I paid under $20 for this baby! Can you say winning! Get yours today and if you're a prime member 2 - day shipping!!!

 

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Kay hates taking pics but she knows her mom blogs, so it's a part of the job! 

Kay hates taking pics but she knows her mom blogs, so it's a part of the job! 

Wow, what a weekend! I had every intention of getting some rest and possibly hitting the beach but we all know life doesn’t happen the way we want it to.

What I would give to be laying in the sun right now! (Insert real tears) the water is my spirit animal. I feel safe and calm when I’m near it. When I’m in it...it’s like God just wants me to float away with Him. He reminds me that He is in control!

Kaydence asked for a beach weekend to wrap up her birthday week and she knew I would be down. I checked the weather and it looked like we were good to go BUT that’s SC for ya! You never know what’s gonna happen. On Wednesday the forecast was a high of 86 and by Friday night it was raining!!!

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What’s a mom to do? Google!!! I swear Google saves me more than I would like to admit. So here’s to searching for indoor things to do in Charleston. There were a few things on my list but I had to quickly remember this weekend wasn’t about me. So I didn’t get to pick. We ended up at the South Carolina Aquarium totally not where I wanted to go but I was pleasantly surprised! It was nice!!

 

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Maddy and I opted to try the bird's nest! 

Maddy and I opted to try the bird's nest! 

So, if you're heading to the Low Country you might want to stop by especially if you get rained out like we did. I'll give you some quick need to know info!

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South Carolina Aquarium 

Hours of Operation:

Daily 9:00 am - 4:00 pm (Closed Thanksgiving and Christmas, and noon on Christmas Eve)

*No flash photography on certain things.*

Prices:

Children 3-12: $22.95 (under 3 FREE)

Adults 13+: $29.95

My favorite part was the outdoor exhibit! It was so neat seeing the birds up close and NO you can't touch them! So please, don't try. I promise it won't end well, lol!

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I think the kids enjoyed the Lego exhibits best! They loved how they recreated some of the examples. Overall, the kids had a great time! It was worth the money and very educational! So if you're in the area, stop by!!!

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Need Glasses?

This one is for all of my vision impaired friends! I've been dying to find cute glasses that don't break the bank. I have astigmatism and I've had it for about 12 years now. Having astigmatism makes it challenging for me to choose between contacts or glasses. I usually wear my contacts 90% of the time BUT when I do wear glasses I don't want to look like someone's grandma! I think I found a solution. Zenni's!  Check out my review below! 

Don't have time to watch, I'll give you a quick run down. Zenni Optical offer a wide range of prescription glasses from children's, men, and women all at affordable prices. I've seen glasses as low as $8!!! Yes they are REAL. Everyone loves to ask me can you see out of them and the answer is YES! I took my prescription from my doctor and typed it in. Pretty simple. The glasses can go up in price if you choose to add the extra stuff. I don't need the extras. I don't wear my glasses enough to want all of the bells and whistles. 

I was able to score two pairs of glasses for under $50 and I even convinced my mom to get some and she now owns 3 pairs!!!  I will warn you it does take about 2-3 weeks to receive your glasses but at that price, I'm not complaining!!

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